Mad Props
So where does the path lead Shall we wage war forever Hehe. Don't be ridiculous, I just gave this series a catchy title and wrote an inflammatory intro to motivate your punkass. The challenge still stands though. Are you game Hope you don't chump out on me cuz remember, I have faith in you The truth is that seduction is more art than war, and whether you realize it or not, you are already becoming an artist by studying these techniques. Ever watch an artist in action There is no logic involved,...
Your Final Assignment
A light touch with women means that you're not intimidated by them. And that's an attractive quality to women, since the best catches are not afraid of women. So if you're fearless, you must be a great catch. Tailor your strategies to your own style and personality. You don't have to master everything in order to improve your results. Mastering even a few of the skills in this Program can boost your results noticeably. a Keep experimenting with your approach, and a Vary your technique a bit and...
Shy Girls
If you come across a man that catches your eye, look at him in the eyes and give him a gentle smile. The smile is an invitation, letting him know that you are open to be friendly with him. 2. If he smiles back, Turn Around Once you make contact and smile at him, the ball is in his court. He smiles back, keep walking. After a few second, slowly turn around and smile at him again. He most likely will be checking you out if he finds you attractive, so he will see this and will smile back at you...
Your First Meeting
You've done it. You've met a girl you're interested in, engaged in some cyber flirting, talked several times over the phone, and agreed to meet. How can you ensure that she feels comfortable and safe meeting a man she's only chatted online with S Always meet in a public place. Often, it can be best to arrange a meeting during the daytime so that things feel more comfortable. Don't feel offended if she wants to provide her own transportation. Avoid asking her back to your house until the second...
Great Stuff
2-HOUR VIDEO Dress For Success and Body Language Seminar Joanna is spectacular Frank Funny Bold Honest We captured everything by taping with two cameras the entire time. Joanna, volunteers from the audience and I demonstrate the key signs of interest and disinterest, both from across the room and when engaged in verbal intercourse. Joanna presents her views on no-no's, hair, teeth and any subject the guys wanted to hear about Joanna ranged from a sex with young woman through toupees, SUVs,...
Maniac Highs report NYCs comments
mongst others, the following topics are being discussed in the report and its commentaries how to recover from forgetting that you were supposed to meet with a girl when and when not to pay for a girl's dinner movie transportation etc how to deal with seemingly unreasonable objections to kissing for example how to plan a date gt Outing Report Maniac fucks up, and then recovers and feels up HB gt Here I fuck up, and think I meet her on Satuday. So I go out gt sarging with Mr. Lager on Friday,...
STOP right there back the truck up and step away from the expectation
Your initial expectation is just to have a good time, even if the person ends up not being right for you. That way you cannot be disappointed. This will be your rule for any date from now on. Dating is supposed to be fun. If he she is not the one, so what If you used the process in the previous chapter, you will be in a much better position to find out what potential there is with this person. Just keep collecting information. If they turn out not to be right, you have learnt something new -...
Catch Phrases
1 t one time or another in your dating life, you're gonna hear a line. It may W not be, Come here often or Where have you been all my life but it's going to be some sort of catch phrase that, upon translation, means more or less than meets the ear. Following are phrases that should set off warning bells and whistles. I'm not saying you need to immediately dump the date who dares toss you a line, but it is helpful to know what he or she may be really trying to tell you. These sort of...
Field reports 1
The rich and famous setup - but even more accurately the tired of female attention setup The effectiveness of persistence with a smile - true seduction choose and seduce , not a numbers game or easy girls. Svengali's street pick-up - a classic street pick-up using humour, romance, sex-talk and kino with confidence. Svengali's friend's street pick-up - a neg of sorts gets the ball rolling The original Mr Smooth posts - Maniac High describes the technique of a Japanese PUA. NightShadow's IRC...
Not gonna happen
You can't save someone who doesn't feel they need to be saved, and you can't change who someone is. If you date a Stripper, that's who you're going to be dating - a woman who sells sexual fantasy to other men. Most guys I've known who dated Strippers were cool with the job for the first few weeks. But then jealousy can set in. You can never be sure what they are doing at the club, and it's easy to imagine her being unfaithful. All your insecurities start to bubble up, and before you know it,...
Tip 28 The most important secret of all
Finally a blatant obvious truth some still need to understand, is that logic itself dictates your sex life only be and can only be chaos without SOME effort to meet more women. If you aren't approaching AT ALL, either realize that no amount of knowledge or attempt to learn to control things will get you a great sex life. Or if you fear the approach work on your internal issues of what is stopping you as in my booklet dynamic approach. Even more realize that there is no failure to fear, as you...
You Dont
Don't get discouraged if women don't seem to be picking up on you at first. Sometimes, men get so used to their old habits that putting on a new fa ade is very intimidating. Practice makes perfect - and that goes for everything from dressing in the right clothes to flirting with and seducing women you meet. It also takes a while to learn what works and what doesn't because each woman is different and will desire different things from you. Think like a writer - rejection is a necessary part of...
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Judi James is a leading television expert in body language, social behavior, image, workplace culture, and communication skills and has her own series, Naked Celebrity. Judi also appears regularly on Big Brother on the Couch, The Paul O'Grady Show, The Xtra Factor, Newsnight, and Sky News Judi started her career as a leading catwalk model and trained many big names at her modeling school in Chelsea, including Naomi Campbell . She has had six novels published, including the bestseller...
Sexual Secrets
My take Give a woman such a pleasurable experience In bed that she _ would come over every day and have sex with you,., even If that's the only time you spent with her. And do this even If she's someone you've been together with for years and you know will be there for _ Sex Dissociate then associate. This Is the time to tell her she's beautiful. This Is the time to tell her that you watched her walking towards you and you wanted to rip her clothes off three days ago,,. _ and you've been...
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Review of The Dating Black Book by TokyoPUA Fast Seduction 101
I've often said that the reason we need advice on women at all is that our fathers didn't or couldn't take the time to teach us what we needed to know and our mothers taught us the wrong things . What I felt like while reading this book was that a combination of a martial arts sensei, a wise man, a great sales man, a seductionist, and finally dear old dad were all rolled into one giving me the kind of great advice I needed years and years ago. If you are the type of person who thinks better...
Your next step
Let's be realistic. I asked you to go out and do all the preparation steps while you were reading this book. But since you are normal, you probably chose to read the entire book then to come back to it and do each of the steps properly. Here is a summaryof the major steps involved in seducing women and bringing them home Shop for a nice set of funky clothes. Get the jingles, shoes and hepatitis glasses. Start doing sit ups if you got a food baby. Groom your self. Deforest your chest and pubes...
The original Mr Smooth posts
Tonight, something very interesting happened, I ran into a guy using a new sarging approach, which I must say is different, but was very effective. The result, lots of HBs Shitloads of kissing within 2 minutes of meeting the chicks Phone Numbers, and babes from heaven. I am going to describe what this guy and I with him as I picked it up from in during the night was doing, and then would be very interested to get your opinions on how or why this was even working.I was shocked Tonight, I went...
Endure
To live is to fight, for this world is but a hurricane of challenges all aimed at you. If it ever becomes too much, if you get down on your life, you will look for encouragement. Everyone puts on the appearance that they want the best for you, that they want you to succeed. But in reality, the thing they least want is you to succeed. They want you to fail When you start to change your life, people will notice it. They will not like it. We all get used to placing people in certain 'categories'....
Youre a Senior
As we get older and wiser, dating should get easier, but I'm not sure it ever really does. If you're a senior 65 or older , this book may be particularly useful to figure out what's changed and what's the same old story. If you're divorced, it's a good idea to keep your kids in the dark for as long as possible. Don't wait until the wedding or the funeral, but reading the section on single parent dating applies regardless of the age of the child. If you're widowed, don't be surprised to find...
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Clusters Circumstances and Gestures in Daily Encounters
Figure 165 A good example of an openness cluster. The palms are fully exposed in the submissive position and the fingers are spread wide to give more impact to the gesture. The head is in the neutral position and the arms and legs are apart. This man is communicating a submissive, non-threatening attitude. Figure 166 This is a classic deceit cluster. As he rubs his eye he looks away towards the floor and both eyebrows are raised to the disbelief position. His head is turned away and down,...
Being comfortable regardless of where you are standing or sitting
Can you remember those three things I am more than certain that you can. Start from there and build on it. You can always come back to the book and practice new things or refresh the older information. Brass Balls Eye of the Tiger is a motivational quote I came up with from a couple of different movies. The first is from Glengarry Glenross in which one of the characters displays what it takes to sell Real Estate. Ultimately, one of the most important elements in approaching women and being good...
Closing
I encourage you to start to make your life a passionate adventure, right now. This very We have no guarantees in life, and we don't know what will come after this world, but we still have right now. You'll have plenty of time to rest when you're horizontal in the ground. Do you want to look back at the end of your life and regret all the things you did do, or the things you didn't Every man dies but not every man really lives. Don't follow the masses. Don't do what everyone else is doing....
APPENDIX The Affect of Age on Seduction Interests
Women have different interests at different ages. Knowing what her likely focus will be at a certain age will help you understand how best to present yourself. I'm assuming that most women you will target are single, and some may have had a marriage or child somewhere in the past. The big variable in all of this will usually revolve around her sense of self-esteem. How she feels about herself and keeps up her self-image will play heavily into her priorities as she gets older. Generally...
Let Yourself Be Human Forgive Yourself
When you admit your weaknesses and accept them, you start the healing inside. You stop resisting and open the door for change. The only thing that exists right now is the present moment. All of the past does not exist except in your memories. It is non-existent in the world outside of your mind, yet you live like it's still real. Let it go. We all have places we are insecure and have fears. All of us. everyone Most don't talk about it or acknowledge it, but it's there. Let yourself off the...
Ten Tips for Safe Flirting
Protecting your identity Meeting safely Having a plan B Protecting yourself our mother told you never to speak to strangers, but now you're an adult you can just adopt safe strategies when flirting and dating. Always keep safety in the back of your mind whilst flirting, but don't worry about it so much that it prevents you from enjoying it. Be aware of these ten top tips to ensure that you can flirt with gay abandon and remain safe in the process. Giving any of your key personal details away...
Attitude
Every single guy I know who has improved his game with women has shirked off that bitter, whining attitude that he can't get success because of this or that and he just goes and DOES IT ANYWAY. Remember that scene in Apollo 13 where Ed Harris talks about the situation with the astronauts out of control and their ship crippled in space, and he says, Failure is not an option There was no place in their decision path that would allow them to throw their hands up and say, Sorry Can't do it. Those...
How Do I Come Off As The Most Romantic Guy In The World But Only Have Chicks Be
I have a friend who has a solution that goes something like this At the beginning he says, I'm a VERY busy person. I have so many things going on in my life that I don't think I have the time for a long-term relationship. I'm not saying that I wouldn't have one, I just don't think that now is the right time. So here's the deal You can have a little of my time, or you can have none. I also think that it's important to not see a woman more than about once a week, twice at the most and only do...
Your Voice on Steroids Pump Up the Charm
luster and gusto to your vocal quality. You voice instantly lowers and acquires a fuller and richer tone. To harness this method of speaking, practice talking while pressing your hand against your stomach. Feel yourself exhaling from your abdomen as you breathe out your words. Experience the rumbling of your stomach as you enunciate. When you get the hang of it, listen to yourself in a voice recorder. You'll be pleasantly surprised by the change. Whiny, high pitched speakers can dramatically...
Tip 27 Factor 5 She is not looking to have sex at all period or ON her period
Again something we cannot KNOW for sure upon approaching a woman we find desirable. The feminists would go CRAZY over this statement but simply do not hit on women who are all bundled up like its 5 degrees outside, unless of course it is 5 degrees outside. A woman with no sex drive will not put on makeup and fix her hair or show legs and cleavage unless she is looking for sex or looking for validation from men looking at her. The times she will be looking for this validation are usually...
Waldens success
Source His reports are too much to include here for the moment. Read through it all - it shows an actual person going through the entire Boot Camp and succeeding. His original text is included here for your viewing pleasure. Having lurked for a while I think I've got a lot in common with the guys when they start posting here. Like most of the DJ crew I'm not a dweeb, I'm in good shape, and I have a good job that I even like, and have a lot of great friends. And I can't meet women to save my...
Youre Dating Your Relatives Ex
This is just a specialized and potentially even more toxic case of dating a best friend's ex. I actually know a man who married the sister of his girlfriend of seven years. You can imagine family Thanksgivings are more than a little strained. Again, if the two of you feel star-crossed, at least wait a while, and then don't share the details but do tell the relative before they find out via the family grapevine. If at all possible, avoid this plight. If you can't avoid it, make sure that your...
Movies
Gladiator - Russel Crowe is the epitome of male confidence. Strength and Honor Maverick - Mel Gibson's character imitates wimpiness, but he's really demonstrating the hallmark characteristics of the confident and effective Alpha Man. Most all the James Bond series, especially the early Sean Connery films. Groundhog Day - Bill Murray's transformation from clueless joker to balanced guy is priceless, but the best part is watching him learn to change his impact and influence on people. The Empire...
David Shades reallife seduction
My fellow asf ng buddies. You have not heard from me in over 2 months. I have been very busy with my new found confidence to approach any woman anywhere with openers that actually work, since finishing Ross' basic home study course. I have also been spending most of my online time reading the SS list. There are some fantastic success stories there, especially from guys like Bishop. I have learned almost as much from the SS list as from the course. Here is my report for last week. As you will...
Youre Dating Your Best Friends Ex
You and your best friend share lots of secrets and have lots in common, but an ex shouldn't be one of them. I don't advise dating your best friend's ex unless it's been a long, long time, and even then, I guarantee your friend is going to feel you're being disloyal. The Everly Brothers had a song about bird dogging which is dating your friend's date , and the song, not the concept, was a big hit. I know it makes some kind of logical sense. After all, you and your friend do share a similar sense...
Salutation Displays Forms of greeting
Schematic Gestures More stylized or abbreviated versions of mimic gestures Scissors Stance Standing with your legs crossed . Screensaver Face A term I coined to describe the face we pull in between social displays, usually a deadpan, or even angry or anxious-looking face . Scrotch The scratching of the crotch area to gain sexual attention, usually performed by males Secondary Emotions Emotions that are prompted by your own thoughts, like worry or anxiety Self-motivational Gestures These are a...
Be A Talker
You want to know why we find Hollywood studs so friggin' hot It's not neccessarily their looks. Case in point pushing 40 Pillsbury Doughboy Russell Crowe. What drives us over the edge is when a guy tell us what he wants - and how. It makes us less self-conscious, and thus it's easier to us to enjoy ourselves. Taking on the attitude ie easy Sound off. We want to know you're loving it and want us to love it too. To hone your badboy persona, breathe against our ear, grunt when you pick us up, and...
Tip 26 Factor 4 All eggs in one basket
Time and chaos do not go well together. Time is linear. Chaos between humans is nothing even close. In simple terms, ONE effort can drag on a LONG time when it comes to human interactions. Persistence with any given prospect is a major key. Getting the no or the yes within a reasonable time frame is a given to improve your OVERALL sex life with as many women as possible. More than that, using the stuff from this material that helps to avoid chaotic interactions and also using it on MANY women...
Keep her off balance
What I mean by this is that you do not want any woman feeling too secure or cocky about how you feel about her or the hold she's got on you. This goes back to a key principle of human behavior The things you are most attracted to are the ones that you are not certain about. Uncertainty breeds an incredible gratitude for the times when you're rewarded. Training for the more intelligent animals dolphins is done by what is known as intermittent reinforcement. This means that once a behavior is...
Aphorisms
It all comes down to this choice live your dreams or live other people's dreams. The bitterness of a poor quality woman is remembered far longer then the sweetness of how easy it was to get her. Keep your standards up. Aim HIGH. The difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is this the former INVESTS his time while the latter SPENDS his time. Most young people don't realize that they are at a golden moment to plant seeds of talent to harvest throughout their lives. Some...
How To Let Go Of Past Hurts
For some men, letting go of the anger is hard to do. If they've been mistreated badly enough by women and most men have been , then their vindictive side will not have been satisfied. All those women will have gotten away with it That can be the hardest thing for most men to come to terms with - that the women who treated them like dirt might not someday pay for those wrongs. The miscreants will go through life unpunished If you believe in the hereafter and in a just God, then perhaps you can...
The effetiveness of persistence with a smile
Anyway as it gets closer to closing time I see a girl 8 who I thought was cute but had been with another guy early in the evening who she obviously knew . She was now by her herself at a bench on the wall and I was about 20 ft away with 3 friends at a table. I make eyecontact and waved her to come over In my experience this never works except with girls with no self respect, so it's sort of test on my part She gives me a look that says, Yeah right. I get up and walk over to here about 3 seconds...
Youve a Single Parent
Nowadays, nearly two-thirds of all children are being raised in single-parent households, which means there are a lot of parents dating. The number of single mothers 9.8 million has remained constant 84 percent of children living with one parent are living with mom , while the number of single fathers is growing Men now comprise one-sixth of the nation's single parents. As if dating weren't complicated enough, having your child ask you what time you're going to be home adds agony to...
Body Language Being Relaxed and Being Comfortable
You may have to constantly remind yourself of this throughout the day, but this is something you can start implementing right now. I mean literally now. You can take a 1-minute pause from reading, stand up, and walk around with your new body language. Try sitting on a chair or a couch with your new, relaxed body language. Take up space Being comfortable is the key here. Speaking with the proper tonality is something you can start implementing right away. To fundamentally change your tonality so...
Reality Check
If after you begin dating, have dated several different women and every relationship seems to end after only a short time, it's time for you to do a reality check. There are certain behaviors that turn women off in a hurry and you need to make certain that you aren't doing any of them. 1. Clingy and needy behavior will send a woman running for the nearest exit. If you send out signals to the woman that without her you will perish, since you feel so very insecure, it is surely going to put her...
Last But Not Least 12 Extra Hints
1. When he asks you out silently count to five before saying yes. It will make him nervous and that's good 2. Don't call him even when you feel mean about not calling him. If he loves you, he'll call anyway. When he asks you to call him, call him once. Do the absolute 3. When he asks you out for ice cream, a drink, or to a football game when you wish you were going out for a fancy dinner, say Sure Remember, you're hard to get but easy to be with You'll go to an expensive 4. When walking down...
Handling the girls 1
Be busy - attract girls by being busy. Suggest competition - keep her on her toes. Put a price on yourself - the more you cost, the more value she attributes to you. Show a willingness to walk away - don't let her take you for granted. Use her friends - by realising, that friendship also means rivalry. Judge her by her actions, not by her words - or rather, let her actions speak the words. Have and reveal secrets - provide a constant thrill for the woman. Use poetry - women are about feelings...
Closing
Live your life on purpose. Make your life an intentional act of happiness rather than a series of random acts. Only you can control the affect of your personality on other people - and that is the essence of seduction. You have to take the active role of turning the steering wheel of your life. The Seduction Method is about helping women get to the decisions they want to make. It's no different than sales, where you're helping a customer make a buying decision that will profit both you and...
Acknowledgements
I would like to thank a great variety of people and in no particular order of importance. Without these people, finishing this project would have been very difficult at best. So a big thank you goes out to Nancy and Dario for allowing us to access your buildings to shoot all our photographs. You have both gone way above and beyond what we expected from you. I would also like to thank Chris, Vanessa, Gian Paolo, and Stephanie for participating in the artistic aspects of the project. You have...